Hello,wondering if anyone can give me some advice/comfort.
Me and my partner had been having an increasingly difficult relationship-some good times,but he has a high pressure job,no longer gets on with his family and also many of his friends have either moved away or he has not nurtured his friendships so he had many 'stresses'. I tried so hard to support him,but he takes his stress and anger out on me and there was no longer anything I could do to help.then I found out I was pregnant-initially he was happy with this news,but then I think he began to feel trapped and scared,so his mood swings and anger increased.I made the difficult decided that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship-I also questioned if I should keep the baby :( but have decided i will. It is another 5 months until the baby is born,but he is becoming unbearable to communicate with.he swings from being positive and claiming it will work,despite us not loving each other,to making demands that are terrifying me-such as having the baby every weekend (obviously this couldn't happen while small and beeastfeeding) he also states things like "I don't want my kid to have another dad/father figure" which just gets me so worried and anxious about what may happen or how he may act in the future.he is a very jealous and possessive man. I am terrified about what will happen in the future and can't relax, I have told him it is too early to worry about all this and that we need to sit down and talk about it all. Anyone got any words of advice :( I 31 my partner is 30,I don't need financial support from him but he will provide it.he has no support from his family but will know his rights and will prob demand the baby gets his surname. I hate that I am in this situation. I never expected that this would/could happen.