Ok ...tonight's example is just one but there have been more that have got me thinking over the past year....
Today I took dad to hospital for appointment (re Alzeimer's ...poss signifigant?)..She picked boys up from school.
Got home....(theirs) 2 hours fine ....boys playing up a bit ...being silly on stairs while we were watching tennis .....I had already warned them ...stood up to warn them again and she said .....
"OH bizzey don't hit/slap (she says she said one word I say she said another ...but to me they are still implying the same ) them" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I stopped in my tracks and looked at her in dis-belief....
I questioned her on her wording and or my disipling of my children..(Astern look ...reminder that I will not repeat name/something for the 3rd time/glare is all i need for mine ??)
I have left her crying doing a "woe is me act " with me being the nasty person
because I said "I cant believe you said that "
My boys asked why nanny was crying ....when I told them the story ...they burst out laughing and said when I pull that funny strict face they know I /they have reached their boundries and need to go before they laugh .....
Rabbitiing now so better stop....There is more to this that I won't go into now ....but I still feel sick that she could say that to me
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