what do you make of this comment???

[redbull]

me and dp talking last night hed been to pub with friends husband and i stayed with friend and all the kids, friend and her husband going through a really bad patch, when we got home dp told me he had a word with friends husband and told him

"you have to pull your self together get your self sorted, you have 2 very special, beautifull boys who need you (both ASD)and you have a gorgeous, beautifull wife, look at me i have a good son (who is also ASD)and good partner, dont throw it away"

i didnt say anthing to where is our beautifull, georgeous and special words and feelings are

Awwww redbull he probably didn't mean it to sound like that, you know what men are like, they don't realise that they should make us feel like queens continuously.

I see what you are saying and I would probably think exactly the same way if my DP had said this, but I would have probably told him so.

I don't understand the last sentence. Your dp sounds like a great friend to have for your friend's dh

Hmmm, I see your point, but it would be a bit like bragging for him to call you guy gorgeous and special, wouldn't it?

even if he hadnt of said it to friends husband as he was telling me he could of put it in as he knows how sensitive i am but on the other hand why couldnt he of least praised ds up as he is very special with his problems.

i couldnt say anything as we to at the moment are on fragile ground

i think the fact that he was urging his partner to value his family by showing how much he values his own is the key thing here. i think that's lovely.

i agree with vitomum - the essence of what he was saying was he's so lucky to have you and ds.

I would probably wonder why he called her beautiful and gorgeous and just referred to me as 'good' but then Im a spoilt brat at times