Please help me make sense of it all

[MyBloominMarvellousYoni]

I was in an abusive relationship for two years. I was raped, assaulted, emotionally abused just to name a few things.

My current partner knows all this but still pesters me for sex like a child.

He tries it on with me by touching me up and goes in a sulk when I say no.

This morning I woke to him touching me. It took me ages to realise what was happening because I'm on anti phsycotic drugs (BPD) and I suffer with extremely deep sleep.

He is so nice in other ways but he really doesn't know what he has done wrong.

It is all a bit too familiar to my last relationship. He keeps asking why I don't want sex.

Sorry to say but your current partner sounds a bit immature - supports you, says the right things but when it comes down to things, he wants it all on his terms.

All you can do is to explained things to him and make it clear that this type of thing is a deal breaker for you and if you choose to give him another chance, and it happens again then he'll be out the door.

I'm so confused. He is immature and doesn't think he has done anything wrong.

Talking to him is getting nowhere.

I thought I was being paranoid :(

I don't think you're paranoid. You've explained your history, you've asked him to stop and, rather than respect your wishes, he carries on doing the same thing and then goes into a sulk. He's either thick or abusive or both. Immaturity is no excuse.

Leave.

He sounds awful. He doesn't have your best interests, or any of your interests, in his head. He is selfish and nasty

I'm really sorry to hear that. Sadly, I think you need to explain to him you can't be together with someone like him.

DUMP!

Seriously. He won't improve. Not Worth It.

Move on.

Bloomin. You need to run, run like the wind. Don't fall into the trap of thinking 'if only I can explain this to him properly, he will understand and take notice'. Some people just don't listen, because they want to do what they want, which in this case is abuse you. Sorry.