How to deal with this?

[mummytasha11]

Me and ex split up nearly 5 months ago have slept together a few times (stupidly) and we are still talking on a daily basis just general chatting but recently he has been sending me inappropriate pictures of himself and I don't know how to respond...

Don't really understand why he is sending me them as we aren't together anymore?

He's probably got a mailing list of girls he's sending them to on pof.

If you have genuinely split up with him, send him a reply or better still tell him in person, that you realise that sleeping with him has blurred the boundaries, but that you are now separated and have no wish to receive inappropriate pictures of him.

Do you have DCs together or any other reason to still be in contact with him? If you do I suggest you tell him that you are only willing to discuss things directly to do with the DCs from now on. If not delete/block his number.

We do have dc but think the daily chatting is going to have to stop. Just don't want things to turn nasty.

I know I have to say it but its hard because once I do that it will be final.

You had a thread several days ago on this. The advice given was to go no contact. No "general chatting" with him, ffs. Any communication should only be what is strictly necessary regarding DC handovers. He's stringing you along, OP, because you're a convenient shag and ego boost. Don't you think you are worth more than that? Then assert your worth by ceasing to engage with this man. Completely.

once I do that it will be final.

...and that is a very, very GOOD thing.

Reply with LOL

That should sort that out

I haven't replied since he sent me it this afternoon hopefully he will get the hint.