Marriage is starting to be mentioned, by him, not me...

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No idea how to react.

Who is he?

Do you have children together? Do you live together?

Is he nice?

How do you feel about the idea?

Well you either want to or you don't. I love being married. I am really settled. Some people don't need it.

I dont know how to respond when faced with such an overload of information.

You need some precis skills, Pfft!

Somebody once mentioned murder to me

it fair shit me up, I can tell you

Who is he talking about marrying?

JFDI. Or don't.

TLDR

Ahahaha to some of these replies

Lols aside, and I'm going to have to presume a fair amount that isn't mentioned in your post, is it too soon for you? How long have you been together? Has marriage crossed your mind? How did you react inside? Fear? Happiness? Rage?

I liked your "who is he?" Imperial. It's a fair question. If he's the boyfriend it's one thing. If he's the butcher, it's another.

He's her father. It's a conversation about her dowry. He has 5 daughters y'see, and needs to marry them all off because the estate is entailed to a cousin.

I think OP is Rapunzel

It'd better not be Hugh Laurie who's asked you, OP. If it was, I will hunt you down.

He's a vicar, taking about his day at work

Talking

On the understanding that it's you he is talking about marrying (and I realise we can't necessarily make that assumption), there are several options open. However, if your first reaction was to head for Mumsnet to ask how to respond rather than shouting Hallelujah and googling venues, it's probably too soon.

Leave the bastard.