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Is he using an escort as I type???

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Chocomama1 · 25/06/2013 18:57

I am currently 9 months pregnant and we havent had sex the whole pregnancy due to complication. I noticed on my DHs web history that he was looking at London Escort Guide for the paddington area last night, this is the station he stops at on his way home. He has obviously tried to delete the history but I know a way of checking things he obviously doesn't.
Once he goes in the underground, his voicemail automatically goes to voicemail, and when he is in paddington the reception is normal again.
I rang him 1 hour ago and it went to voicemail so he was on underground... It only takes 1/2 on the underground so I rang half hour later...it is now ringing which I know means he has reached paddington. That was 30 mins ago now..... and he still isnt answering his phone.
We go through this routine every night so I know what time to pick him up from the station. Am I being ultra paranoid? Or am I onto something?
I dont want to outright accuse him but if Im wrong it could really damage our relationship. I need to get evidence first....
When i pick him up later does anyone know the signs of lying? I need to work him out first...

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MsWinnieBaygo · 25/06/2013 19:01

Aside from asking why he didn't answer his phone I'm not sure what else you can really say without giving the game away. Does he normally shower as soon as he gets in from work? If not, and he has one tonight, that might also be another clue.

Chocomama1 · 25/06/2013 19:03

Im sure escorts have a shower facility where a man can wash. He is ultra hygienic as it is. With his salary and from the website it would be a high quality one.

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waddlecakes · 25/06/2013 19:03

Well I think that as soon as he walks in the door you should tell him you found the page and due to him not picking up his phone, you'd like to know if something's going on.

I wouldn't give him the time for a shower or even 5 minutes, because it gives him a chance to compose himself and ''shift'' back into the home life, if you see what I mean.

waddlecakes · 25/06/2013 19:04

You should be able to smell whether he's freshly showered...

Chocomama1 · 25/06/2013 19:06

Ill be picking him up from the station as i do every night with my daughter. Cant start the convo infront of her but will be interesting to see if his behaviour is any different.

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 25/06/2013 19:06

When he walks in the door, tell him you know where he's been and you know what he's done.

waddlecakes · 25/06/2013 19:07

So I assume he's going to be late to the station then? Or how does it work, time wise, if he's gone to an escort?

Doha · 25/06/2013 19:12

Just ask him if he had a good time and was she worth throwing away his DW and family for. Then watch his reaction!!!!

Hamwidgeandcheps · 25/06/2013 19:18

Surely he would be late?

maleview70 · 25/06/2013 19:18

Might just be a fantasy. Doesn't excuse him looking but looking and doing are two very different crimes.

ElizabethX · 25/06/2013 19:19

Paddington's near me...but escorts are all over the place no?

Rather than accuse him of using escorts why not focus on what you know which is that he's been looking at escort websites? Ask why?

EhricLovesTeamQhuay · 25/06/2013 21:00

Ummm he's googling escorts in his area. That's proof enough surely? What a disgusting turd.

waddlecakes · 26/06/2013 08:00

What happened OP?

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