May I just say....

[GoldiChops]

You are an absolute arse. I am so angry with you I can't breathe. You take me for a date, cinema, chat, meal, listen to my woes, talk about our weeks, tell me your problems and joys- then just look at me and fucking FUCKING say 'I want you in my life. But not in a romantic way'.

It's been what, 2, 3 months. Dates, texting, laughing, trusting and you want to get points for being a fucking gentleman and treating me to the cinema?

Holy almighty shit balls. Talk about a bolt out of the blue. Not one hint, not indication you weren't as happy as me. We talked the future, we hypothetically talked kids and marriage and found we had similar hypothetical views. Similar hobbies, similar life choices.

Aaargh.

Oh and no one needs to answer this. I just need to get it out of my system and move on. I didn't love him, but I could see loving him..... in the future. I invested effort and I feel stupid.

[KnittedC]

Harvester? Orcs?

You are definitely well rid. Venting externally to stop it festering inside makes perfect sense to me x

[Shallistopnow]

Don't be depressed Goldi. He really does sound like an immature twerp. And don't put up with niggly annoyances front the beginning - you'll still be putting up with them in 10 years & 2 kids time. And that'll really piss you off.

[Twattergy]

He lost me at Harvester.

Btw why not have a small cry if you feel like it? It's not a sign of failure. Might help get yet out of your system.

And orcs? Nah.

[Hissy]

My love, depression is anger turned on ourselves, and it's so destructive.

If you were to cry, it's not an act of weakness, it's a sign that you're feeling sorry FOR YOURSELF.

You are entitled to feel that, especially for yourself.

You had hopes, you were disappointed. It means NOTHING about YOU as a person, merely that HE isn't right for YOU.

Be kind to yourself, you're worth that!