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I have feelings for my boss. We're both married. Help!

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Notgoingto · 20/06/2013 18:20

I am not going to cheat on my husband who I love very much. But I'm incredibly physically attracted to my boss. We sit next to each other all day at work and just the way he smells makes me crazy with wanting too have sex with him. We will in future sometimes have to travel together for work which will involve staying at the same hotel.

I do not want to and am determined not to cheat. In fact I want to flip a switch and see my boss as just another colleague who I can share a laugh with and that's it. So how do I make these thoughts and feelings go away?

My husband and I don't have much of a sex life and aren't really compatible that way. I thought I just wasn't a very sexual person... Until I met my boss.

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Christopher12 · 08/05/2017 18:00

14866956786, spot on lol you never know till you know.....sometimes its too late and all for what? I truly hope your still married Notgoingto X

user1486956786 · 09/05/2017 09:48

Only just realised old thread! Desperate to know what happened!!!!

Christopher12 · 09/05/2017 17:10

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Christopher12 · 09/05/2017 17:12

Me too long number lol

oscareyeballs · 12/05/2017 13:46

What Dahlen said in post number 4 is right on the money.

Your mind is playing tricks on you and definitely DON'T go on any trips with boss while you are like this!

Talk to your DH.

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