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DP has ended our relationship. I don't know what to do.

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devastatednewlyseperated · 15/06/2013 20:12

We live in a house that we rent from his family.
We have a son.

They want me out asap.
We are arranging 50/50 shared contact.

ex DP is being nasty, I just want out asap.

He is saying that he will be primary carer as he can give our child the best lifestyle.

I am worried he is going to not stick to the 50/50 agreement and try to stop me having any contact.

I have done 1 wrong thing as a mother but he has done many but lies about them. He says there is no way I will get custody and I am a bad mother.

He is pretending to be father of the year at the moment and i am so scared I will lose my child. How do I protect myself?

He comes from a wealthy family with many high connections and they have alledgedly done devious nasty things in the past to get custody of relatives kids.

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devastatednewlyseperated · 15/06/2013 20:55

i cannot stay here with him in the house. i have to leave. I don't want him to get angry.

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LunaticFringe · 15/06/2013 20:58

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 15/06/2013 20:59

I think you need the Womens Aid number as well link 0808 2000 247. They are very helpful for victims of domestic abuse and can give you good advice on how to stay safe when getting away from an angry man. Keep your DS close.

LunaticFringe · 15/06/2013 20:59

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devastatednewlyseperated · 15/06/2013 21:15

i will call the womans aid number when he is out next.
thanks e veryone.

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QuintessentialOldDear · 15/06/2013 21:21

If he does get angry, dont hesitate to call the police. Dont cover for him this time! Let them deal with him if he intimidates you, scare you, or hurt you.

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