So: I posted on here a while ago asking why men are so predictable and crap, recounting tale of how I'd hooked up with an ex from 20 years ago after the spectacular implosion of a 17 year relationship (married for 11 of them - involving DH being arrested and charged with acessing indecent images... You get the picture). I was weak and vulnerable.
This ex (who lives abroad, and with whom I'd had no contact for 18 years) got in touch last summer and to cut a long story short, we chatted on Skype for 4 months, he came over here and we had an AMAZING weekend together. Then he disappeared. Then reappeared. then disappeared. Then reappeared. And kept spinning the yarn about how much I meant to him, and how he wished we were in the same country. When he was good he was very very good, but then when he deceided to go AWOL, I was left feeling anxious, sick and worthless (again).
The signs were not good. But I'm a fool for any attention at the moment. He asked me to go over to visit in the summer. I booked my ticket on Monday 27/5, to go and visit in Aug. Then on Sunday he told me he had deceided to get back with an ex 'because she is here and I want a chance to build a future here'. Fair enough, but how could he do that, knowing everything about what I'd been through???? And knowing how I felt? And how excited I was about visiting him?
The depths men sink to never ceases to astound me. And I know compared to others on here it's not so bad. But my exH is a convicted paedophile and i've just been dumped for the second time by the same person. AAARRRGGHHHH!
Not expecting any answers, just needed to get this off my chest and say 'Man Diet anyone'??? Love to all fellow MNs xxxx