bf left by text said he needed to clear his head! then text saying he left to get the spark back!
Would not see me or speak to me! as he said his head was up his arse, the night before we was talking about kids as we do not have any and he would like them and I thought everything was normal, I understand that we have been arguing over stupid things.(not big arguments)
I never used to see him although we lived together as he works 7 days a week I work 6days a week myself, hence the arguing! he's left me with a mortgage and all the lovely bills that come with it.
I cooked when finishing a long day myself from scratch no microwave meals made he's sandwiches for work everyday without fail, cleaned he's clothes cleaned the house do all the chores on my own shopping etc, I bought him all his clothes an booked 4 holidays to go to get him away from the work life! had to cancel two of them cause he dumped me
The 3rd week he said he didn't know what he wanted anymore!! and mixed message as if he wants to try again but then text messages saying he will always love me(crap) but he wasn't happy but will not give me a reason as to why he's not happy.
he told me to move on cause he doesn't know what he wants but then saying he doesn't want me to move on just wants me happy he's very confusing!!
he said im beautiful,funny the nicest person he knows an he will always love me! an that im he's one! so why has he thrown it all away?
its took me 7 weeks for me to get an answer if he wanted to try again as he was avoiding the question. the answer I got was I don't think so anymore.no!
the week before we split he was saying how he still so happy every time he wakes up next to me and a load of other lovey dovey messages so i am still in a state of shock!! an no body knew he wasn't happy not my family or his so I think he's making excuses! his text messages are very hurtful and confusing.
he said he was deleting my number as he cant look at it anymore cause he gets upset.
I also supported him for 21/2 years as he didn't have a job an no car so I was there for him (think I did too much for him)
nearly 5 years an he didn't sit down to tell me he wasn't happy or tell me it was over its all been done by text message. he's also said f..off stop texting him an making him upset cause I wanted answers