Normal or something a bit special?

[KOTK]

Was having an idle natter with DH the other night about blowjobs (as you do). It turns out that he thinks getting a bj is something really rather special and outside the norm - something that the vast majority of women simply don't do. Whereas for me, they've always been a regular part of my sex life and I've never thought of them as being particularly kinky or extreme at all. Some people like them, some people don't, but they're not actually teetering on the edge of depravity are they?!

Of course everybody has different boundaries and preferences (and obviously no-one should be doing anything that they're not 100% comfortable with), but what's your take on it? Have I got a completely skewed perspective in thinking that they're, well, just a normal part of sex?

Normal and very regular here too, he thinks I'm a wanton nympho for giving him treats so often, and I love that he's not at all reluctant to return the favor! The intimacy and pleasure we both get is lovely, and we both say how lucky we are to be equally matched in the bedroom activities we love to give and receive. None of my exes nor his either, were quite so generous lol.

Me and DP almost always (95% of the time) give each other oral as foreplay.

Normal. It's quite depressing when men think women don't "really" like sex and have to be coerced or charmed into "treating" them with sexual acts.

Receiving just does nothing for me. I don't know why, I've always been the same. I don't lose any sleep over it

Completely normal (both giving and receiving) in every sexual relationship I've ever had. It's always been a really important and regular aspect of our sex life over many, many years.

But it doesn't really matter what other women do, does it? It's not a competition where women try to 'outdo' eachother in the sex stakes is it? Got to be honest, that sort of thing makes me a bit uncomfortable because of the pressure young women especially feel to 'outperform' other girls. I've got a lot of respect for men and women of both sexes who've got the esteem to say 'no, not for me thanks' about something they either don't want to try, or have, but don't fancy doing again.