Twathead dp or now ex dp

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Just a rant really dp has packed up and left me. All because i dont appreciate in his eyes anything he does for me or dcs. I say thank u, i make sure the dcs (3dcs 2 are mine 3rd ours) thank him for days out gifts etc. i do evrything possible in return. But he says im an ungrateful bitch and dont appreciate anything. How am i ment to show my appreciation?? Post an ad in the paper, wear a tshirt with his face on, put a shrine in the front room??!!! Arrrrgghhh he makes me so fucking angry....

He probably has someone else and is justifying this shitty behaviour by blaming your lack of gratitude.

Twat. Stay angry x

It sounds like he's created a false reason to leave so he doesn't have to tell you why he's really leaving.

a.k.a he's a coward who you're probably best off without...

What MadAbout says. I think sadly it is likely that he is gaslighting you because he has someone else on the go.

My ExH did this and I think I was meant to beg him to return so he could have two of us running round after his every need and whim, competing for him.

I let him leave. I am very glad I did.

Tbh i should have let him go ages ago but like a mug i kept on taking him back hes even admitted to letting me "stew" when we have fell out previously. I dont even think i love him anymore, hes ea and has been pysichally (sp) abusive hes like a fucking child had me tip toeing on eggshells in my own home

If I could turn the clock back I would have immediately sorted out my finances (CSA, tax credits) and not believed anything he said about money or child contact (all bullshit). I wouldn't have let him near my home again and would have called the police the first time he intimidated me.

Good luck and I hope you find some peace and quiet without him. I think you will.

I dont feel upset so i think thats a sign that i dont care and that my head and heart are in agreement that were better off without the prick. I dont have a relationship with my family i had him dcs and his family. So i think i only put up with it all was because in my head it was better than being alone

So, is the house in your name? If so, you can cement the change by changing locks, ready for when he decides he's punished you enough and it's time he came back . Legal advice soon too, yes?

Yes its mine, hes hasnt got a key he didnt really live with us, he just lodged when he decided he wanted to play families. The more i think about the more i see how shit its been. He really played me he made me rely on him for everything, he would moan about the lack of food in i would spend all my money do a massive shop then when i asked him for money he would question where mine had gone, he made me think i was going nuts. I really am a shell of the person i was b4 him its so sad. Im not bragging but previous to him i had a job a social life a personality, friends and family, now im broke on benefits with 3dcs for company. I havnt got a clue about budgeting, hes made me so child like iyswim

Yes you are the is someone else got proof in black and white this morning

*are right

Just what I thought the minute I read it. You are so well rid, he's now someone else's problem. You will get your old self back without this twat holding you back x

You will get back to your old self now love. What a twat, hope him and the OW make each other miserable as sin :)

Thanks so do i its his ex b4 me