Had a huge row with dh last night over him cleaning out the cat litter box. I just snapped at him, and he feels I over-reacted, but it's his laziness that bothers me more - and this was what the arguement was really about. I'm currently a SAHM and keep the house clean; kids happy; and I always make him nice food. This week though, I have been sick and struggling to do anything really. Yet, he comes home from work and doesn't even cook tea!!! He just assumes I will do everything. He can't even manage to make a cup of tea, without trying to get me to do it!!!
This just seems to be something else to add to the long list of what is wrong, and this morning I told dh I wanted to seperate!!
He never tries to sort an arguement out or try and make me feel better. I have complained so many times about how I don't feel he loves me anymore. He says he does, but never shows me in any way that this is true. Our sex life is a joke, really. There is no romance or passion between us, so sex is very mundane really - and very rarely enjoyable!! We actually went out at the weekend with some friends, and one of his friends came on to me all night. Dh didn't seem to notice - and wasn't too interested when I told him the next day - but I actually enjoyed it. I liked having someone treat me special.
He won't go for counselling for our relationship and certainly wont discuss our sex life in front of a stranger.
Is there any way we can put passion and romance back in our relationship - or is it too late??? I have felt like there hasn't been passion for a few years now. I'm only 28 and I don't think I like the thought of never feeling romance or passion again
Sorry this is long and probably mixed up - I'm just feeling mixed up today!!!