Met a man several weeks ago. Exchanged numbers and there's been a lot of texting/calling. All good but he works a lot and its been difficult to arrange an actual date. Had one planned the other week, were supposed to meet after work. Usually he texts a lot but nothing all day and I had to text to ask if we were meeting up and he only replied 5 mins before we were due to meet with an excuse about having to work. Nevermind I thought, stuff happens so tried again this week. Same thing, silence all day so I had to text and ask. No reply till 8pm! on this occasion..another excuse about work. Obviously I won't pursue anything with him now as clearly he's been messing me about but why??!!. He texts or calls EVERY day..sometimes calls or text conversations last hours and generally seemed really keen so WTF?! Obviously have wondered if he's married but I don't think so as there was never an occasion when he didn't answer a text or call whatever the time so seems unlikely. Has the kind of job where he can call/text a lot even at work BTW. I know this is no biggie and its not like I'm upset by it, am just bewildered!! Any ideas? Any male perspectives?