Cheating or just curious

[littlehelp]

Found out last night dp has been on dating websites
Confronted him and he said it was just for pleasure nothing else pictures to gaze over etc

However i feel this is just as bad espically since he is quite able to meet up with these girls as its a local site

Totally confussed and also 35weeks pregnant

Anythoughts or help advice

I think you need to stop making light of this.

He isn't an idiot. He's (very probably) shagging other women behind your back. If he is also shagging you, you might want to think about having an STD test.

Just discussed this with DH." The only time I have ever looked at any dating site was when my mate sent us a link to her ex abuser husbands profile so we could point and laugh. If you are on there, you are looking for a date."
I concur.
Sorry

Just to add re the point and laugh remark. Her ex tried to kill his mother, was a thief, a coke addict and a violent unemployable addict. He is not allowed to see his children and mate has a panic alarm from the Police activated whenever he is briefly free from prison.
He's out now ladies, anyone interested?

Look, he was on that site looking for sex, not porn. But a lot of porn losers 'progress' to this sort of thing anyway so if you ever get around to dumping this little shit, check your own tolerance of men who use porn.

He wouldn't have wanted to part with money if he wasn't going to meet anyone, so either he has and you and your baby are at risk from sexual transmitted infections, or you will be at risk in future.

Part of why he's done this is because he doesn't respect you and knows you'll put up with any old pony because you're pregnant and dependent on him. You really are better off getting rid.

Sounds a real catch. Form an orderly line there.

Something I need to have time to think about, where to go from here

Thank you for all the input ive got some serious decisions to make

But having a baby isn't necessarily the happiest time of many blokes lives. It's a time for massive change, his darling slim, hot, size 10 wife, is now rapidly turning into his mother, whom he didn't marry, and grumpy and moody with it.

Fact is, he sees his blokey life disappearing. He will become the 3rd most important person in the house within 5 weeks - after baby, then Mum, and in this case, he's reacting badly.

He need to face some facts: it's grow up time, whether he likes it or not.

With any luck the facts he'll have to face will be that if you screw around on dating sites, spend family money on them and risk your partner and baby's health, you get dumped.