Am I over-reacting? My DP is very controlling& so moody he often has moods for absolutely anything, he's very unpredictable. he;s Ok if everything is fine, like dd being good, eating all her tea, something to do at the weekend & bit by bit I care less about it & everytime I feel I'm moving another step away from him. When he's not moody he's funny, kind & good company. He's a fantastic father to dd & provides well for us. Howevver I don't feel he supports me emotionally. My sister has lost her baby at 23 weeks after suffering 5 previosu miscarriages, she's in hospital today for them to do what they do & I'm devastated for her. He apprears though to not care less, you could say he's never particularly liked her... he;s just completely devoid of empathy for the so very sad situation. This week he's asked for another baby & is quite obviously wondering why I'm so upset.
I feel so dissapointed but not surprised by his reaction. I feel like I hate him & I don't know what to do. He won't ever change it's the way he is - I've asked him to leave before but he refuses to go & we'll jsut ignore each other for days.
I feel so sad & so devastated for my sister & that I've got no support from home - this is so significant in our relationship. I haven't got the strength for the arguments anymore & I just don't know what to do..