I met a man through the internet about 3 months ago, we've since been out a few times and the more I find out about him the more put off I am but when we're together we seem so right for each other, its only when he talks about his personal life that I feel like running a mile. Firstly he still lives with his parents which put me off as he pays no board or anything and his mum does everything for him, even picking him up from nights out at 2am etc. But he told me that he couldnt afford to live on his own so I thought fair enough but then one night I asked if he was staying home as I might phone him and he said he might be "playing out", I thought he was having a laugh but he wasnt, he actually says he is "playing out" when him and his mates go driving around the streets, parking up in car parks in big groups revving engines etc 
I thought that was the kind of thing 17 year olds do...! He has been cautioned by the police before for being a nuicense in the car, he has 6 driving points and I know he used to 'street race' but he says he doesnt anymore yet he always tries to race people at lights. This has totally put me off, I want a boy, not a daft kid. Am I right in being put off or am I being too quick to judge?