DP and I haven't had sex for a year and 5 days, since I was about 4 months pregnant with DS (now 6 1/2 months). When I say no sex I mean he hasn't so much as touched me in any way that could be construed as sexual all that time, though he does show me physical affection in other ways. He said he didn't feel comfortable with the idea of doing it while I was pregnant, which I accepted though sometimes I would have liked to, tbh. Since then we have talked about it only once, just after DS was born, when my understanding was we'd start again when the time was right. Nothing has happened and I'm getting increasingly worried that it hasn't (and frustrated) :-! I've dropped hints but he hasn't taken them and I don't know how to try and start a conversation about it. I've pretty much got my pre-baby body back now, though I am still breast feeding - wondering if that has something to do with it? I just feel he doesn't fancy me any more and a bit down at the loss of this side of our relationship. Did anyone else go this long after DCs? Did it recover? What did you do? (sorry a bit long and if in wrong section: I couldn't find anything suitable under the Babies threads!)