Hi all, never posted before but read regularly. Am at my wits end and just need advice. Want to split with partner- history of him drinking to much- been goig on for years now. So this had led to the destruction of our relationship. We barely talk. We sleep apart. There is no love left. This will sound awful but if he didnt come home today I would feel a weight lifting.
It s at the stage where home doesnt feel like home. Any conversation I have to start. He will talk to me when he s been drinking but I cant be in the same room as him when hes been drinking. So all in all its a nightmare. Have asked several times for him to consider putting house up for sale or at least renting it out to give us a break. He always gets nasty when I suggest this. Shouting, blaming me and then saying I will never tae his son away from him. I dont want to do that he can see him whenever but he threatens me with court etc. i
I feel totally alone dont want to share with friends as if I do and nothing changes I just feel a fool. Other people just split up end of story why cant I?
At the stages of feeling sick all the time. Its just bloody relentless. Help anyone??