Some people will recognise my name and prob tell me I have autistic or ea dh which is prob true but I just want response on one incident pls as cant see wood for trees.
Long story short my mother lives with my forty year old alcoholic brother. He is financially abusing her but she is co dependent and wants someone around.
My brother was ver rude to dh and I some time backand now he and dh do not speak. Dh also does not speak to other brothe for different reasons.
When dh gives n mum a lift they talk about my alcoholic brother. Dh can ge quite bullying verbally, kind of walks people into agreeing with him. M mother can be a people pleased and plays to her audience. Dh suggested changing locks,calling police and social to get brother removed. Mother agreed but didn't really if u know what I mean, she was tired and just wanted to off load.
That was yday on her birthday mind u.
Today he tellsme I'm a crap daughter for not sorting situation and h is going to. Mum had texted t say don do it. I lost temped said I'll leave u if. Do it.
Anywa h proceeded to text m mother and say he felt v angr tha she had manipulated him and basically called he a liar.
Mother v upset says he has been very rude and she on see him now, he won't apologise.
I already barely see brothers but rely on mum or else I'm stuck with mil who is xtremel controlling and thinks sun shines ou of dh arse, prob why he acts as he does. That and absent father syndrome.
I'm actually angry with mum fo leading him on with tale of woe as well as him for being so rude.
Not sure what if nothing to do. Advice pls.