had an accident earlier week; on crutches/painkillers and wotnot and unable to drive. DH totally blasé about it all, to extent I drove myself to the hospital and was given x-ray, crutches etc. and advised to rest and not drive for a week.
now, last night come home and power been out all day. House like a fridge and extremely dark due to cloudy skies. Not able to cook for obv.reason. DH leaves to play footy (every Fri) aware of situation.
an hour later, still no power. DS getting scared and freaked out, having had cereal for his tea in a dark kitchen. I text DH; what do I do, don't want to stay home, can't carry DS and he won't go to bed. Can't drive, but tempted to, to get some hot food and just be warm.
He doesn't reply. When I finally reach him, he's in the pub. He comes home about 11, tells me I should have just "gone to fucking bed like all the neighbours" (we live in an extremely rural location, no idea how he'd deduced that our distant neighbours had gone to bed!) and tells me I have no right to be mad. This morning I tried to discuss it, admittedly very angrily, and he just repeats "shut up, shut up, shut up" at me.
I'm disgusted at him and just want to turf him out. He has had rages in the past and he started again, throwing his weight about, slamming doors etc, and I said he was throwing his toys out the pram cos I was calling him out on being out of order.
Am I over-reacting?