...for sex, which is not unusual. I generally get in the mood really quickly in those circumstances, I suppose because while he's not certain if I'm awake or not, it's all about me. (And while I'm still half asleep I'm quite happy with that.)
Last night, though, I noticed that as soon as I was awake enough to pay some attention to him, there was a total switch so that it was all about him. Which, ok, might be fair given what I was happy with just before, but did feel rather abrupt. He got really into things and I got less and less so. He had a great time, but with very little help from me IYSWIM. Afterwards he was a bit embarrassed and I wasn't much help, really, as I could see why and I think I was starting to feel annoyed for being woken up!
He does have a tendency to be a bit self-absorbed, in and out of the bedroom, but I felt this took it to a new level. I'm wondering if this seems ok to others?