Didn't enjoy sex last night...

[Kione]

and DP just carried on
A bit of history, we've had a few bumps and me not having libifo at all went for a few months, maybe a year. Eventually I found a way to get myself ij the mood and it has been much better lately. So yesterday I was in the mood when I got home but then we had a luttle argument and libido just dissappeared. The we had couple of ciders each so not off our heads and went to bed. He started and I thought "oh why not, might end up enjoying it". But I dindt. I went all stiff to see if he realised but he just carried on. I even told him to finish quick quite sharply and he still carried on abd finished quickly.
I feel sad about it today. it has never bothered me before, but it does now as we where getting on well
What do I do, should I tell him? and what or how?
Thanks.

[ImperialBlether]

Does he usually ask you the next day whether you enjoyed yourself? Seems to me he might be realising he should have stopped and wants reassurance that no, despite your posture, you really were having a whale of a time.

[Kione]

Its usually me who says "you are not allowed to be grumpy today" half joking and with a smile. But when we spoke I told him that months ago I did just for him and he went along and he just went quiet. He always does that if he doesnt know what to say which is better that making frap excuses I guess. But that is how we left it.