Do most men get randier as they get older or is it just my dh?

[Northerner]

Dh would do it all day everyday if I'd let him. Even if I'm unloading the washing machine he get's randy, then he tries to book his slot, saying 'can we do it tonight.'

I'm forever finding him looking at me with those eyes that just want you.......

I swear he his getting worse as he gets older, my mum says they never get any better.

So what's the answer when he wants a shag and I just want to read my book?!

Am off out soon to discuss this with girlfriends so will check back tommorrow.

"I just want to read my book"

You can give some of his spare libido to my DP.

Gawd, I could NOT deal w/someone like that.

I dunno, the last boyfriend I had before DH was 8 years older than I was and he was a total horndog and it put me off entirely.

Lol at "book his slot" .

He can get excited watching you unload the washing machine?! Poor you though. Who would want it on a daily basis for years?! Gawd.

Dunno what you can do to kill his passion, seems easily aroused to me. Can he do his stuff on the sofa while you watch the tv? A friend of mine told me she used to compile a shopping list in her head while he was beavering away. She had it real bad though because he was one of those men who could go on forever (to give her pleasure etc)...

OMG, does it get worse???

And you lot scoff when I say I prefer older men

Wow, can't wait til my DH gets older!

I thought SSSandy meant he should ehem, pleasure himself on the sofa!

Looks like I'm alone then with my randy dh. He's only 36 btw so god knows what he'll be like at 46!!!

No Northener you're not alone. Dp also aged 36, is as your hubby.

Mine thinks he's terribly hard done by, as he doesn't get it every day all day, he tells me 'others' do.... I told him they're lying. He doesn't blieve me.

We've sort of resolved it as he's a lot happier when he knows his 'slot' is.....

My DH is 41 and would do it twice a day if I let him.

I know how you feel, Northerner, but I'd hate it if he stopped wanting me. He doesn't mind a few no's if there's a yes here and there

I get very tired at night so I usually reserve Sunday morning for him if I possibly can! I make a point of doing it then even if I don't feel like it, it's not fair to expect him to go without all the time! He knows it happens a lot more if he's attentive in other ways so it works really well for me too

Yes, I agree, I'd be complaining if he didn't want it with me!

I think all of you experiencing inconvenience should move in with your MILs , then you will know what it is like to be celibate with sexual contact reserved for every second Saturday morning when the kids are watching Scooby Doo and she's gone to get her hair done

COUNT YOURSELVES LUCKY AND STOP MOANING

Suzywong - was your last post for real or tongue in cheek?

no it's for real
we live with MIL in a tiny house and she hardly ever goes out and it is a very reliable form of contraception

FGS, so you can't maon about anything on here now, cause there's always someone worse off than you?

Yada yada.

just offering you a polarised perspective so you can approach your situation a little differently

OK.

Me a little sensitive today

SW it didn't work for me, we went and stayed with my in laws for three weeks, house was packed and included two uber bitch sister in laws. I returned from the sojourn knocked up.

Dp said we're married, they expect us to enjoy conjugal rights

Lucky you Northener ! If only...

I'm frusrated so I read this as "I wish". It has been a number of weeks (lost count) and I am needing a little attention but he isn't paying anyhing at all.