People's attitudes when you're single again?

[Milly22]

Just wondered if people change towards you after a divorce when you're gaining loads of confidence, feeling sexier and happier and laughing again with a lot more time to yourself due to sharing custody of dc with ExH. Did anybody lose any married friends over this and made new single friends?

My friends never treated me differently but I definitely found that when my DS started school the other mums were very chilly with me (and clicky with each other) and the only reason I could think of is that I was the only single mum in the group(and clearly must have been gagging to shag all of their husbands because of my single status).

I honestly don't understand women who would forget a friendship if their friend had become divorced.

I have been with DH for 12 years and in that time I have the same friends, some new, have become very close with some girlfriends, boyfriends, some of which don't work out.

But I am always there for any one of them if it doesn't work out, and I would very much hope they would do the same for me if it happens to me.

I don't pity, I just make sure things stay as normal and fun as they ever were before and help the bad memories become distant memories