Would you dump a guy who goes out a lot, while you are pregnant? I have another child (not his) that I've to look after too, so it was aleays the way really. Me Always full of resentment. Doubt he'll ever change though he swears he will when baby is here. I do think he will when he becomes a father, but will never accept that he didn't bother change for me/the relationship.
He can be more attentive but only when I kick up a fuss.
He goes out with different groups of people. I used to be invited along too but felt very uncomfortable, bored & ignored by him. One particular girl is at his every move, I know she likes/loves him, suspect an EA & feel like I can't take it anymore. I used to be more confident & whatever about it but with pg hormones etc, feel just defeated. She's not stuck in with kids also they work together.
Other issues are huge, but I thought could be managed. I'm thinking now they can't :-(
He can't get hard enough majority of the time due to loads issues (medical) I'm told yet here him get hard easy enough for himself! 
Lately beside me which freaked me out. Have not had him over since. No affection ever on both parts, but mostly as he's like a brick wall. Don't even know why he's with me he barely speaks to me even. He only opens up with alcohol but I refuse to go out with him & his friends anymore esp now heavily pg. I feel very insecure and paranoid.
Would counselling help or is this it? Another baby on my own 
Thanks