Do you think we ever get the whole truth ?

[Mosman]

H reckons its all out, I have nightlong feeling its not and last time I ignored my guy feelings lo

Lol
I shall keep reading and reread inch that post until it sinks in

I'm sure we've had this conversation before - but I can't find any trace of it

What it comes down to is that he's an inadequate twat who feels threatened by your achievements/abilities and if you don't ditch him now, he'll do the dirty on you with a younger woman and leave you high and dry when you least expect it, or when you really don't need it - such as when you're 50+.

As he hasn't got any redeeming features, you're best advised to stick to your original plan, secure your residency, and boot him into the out back.

do-de-do-do, do-de-do-do

The fluence is upon me - hope you're feeling the woo too, tall

Mosman, - so sorry that you have been hurt; sending best wishes - take heed of the wise ones!

I know I know. Please keep telling me

When I waver, not like every day

Waver???!!! Wtf!!! After what he's done, you should be as solid as Uluru in your resolve to dump the fucker as soon as he's served his purpose and you've got your residency.

I mean, come ON, honey. You don't have the full sp tally but knowing some of where his dick's been, can you seriously contemplate having it next to you again?

Oh God no he's not putting it anywhere near me again, it's more that he wants to stay living together and kind of doing our own thing and if with counselling we can be friends and make that work that he's got in mind.
I on the other hand have a fly in fly out miner with a big dick in mind

Would that be to shaft him, or shaft you?

Brilliant
(He can shaft me as often as his schedule allows)

The only making it 'work' he's got in mind is for you to work your arse off providing the equivalent of a 5* hotel for him to shit/shower/shave, have 3 squares & unlimited snacks, and groom himself to buff perfection in order to dupe chat up ow with a view to engaging in more encounters of the up close and personal kind.

It's either very late or very early here - I'm too tired and weary to work out which so it's g'night from me and g'day, or g'afternoon as the case may be, to you, Mos.

Thanks izzy you are a star

Whole truth? Seldom get it because truth can be different seen through different. This does not excuse deliberate liars

And of course once I downloaded all the texts from his phone, there were two other meetings and it turns out he fucked one tart on our daughters Birthday.
Lovely.

What did he do on your birthday? Fuck two?

I know what I'll be doing on his

Would it involve having half a dozen slow comfortable screws?

Hmm, let me think < scratches chin ruminatively >

What should you be more likely to believe is nearer to the truth ...

1. your own counsellor who says your H is a womaniser and would do that even if his marriage was 100% perfect (he's had 3 affairs that you know of blames you for them and shagged other women on significant family days)

2. what he tells you that his counsellor told him (because he is known for his honesty, this twat, isn't he ?)

It's a toughie. Not.

Lol I know.