Should I try talk to him?

[katekavanagh]

Hi all ,I do a f/t college course in my local college and kinda like one of the blokes who work there.he looks around 30-35 and doesn't wear a ring but that's as much as I know unfortunately.btw I am single and aged 30 with a ten year old daughter and I'm wondering should i try talk to him and see if he's single?has any one else done anything like his before? I've seen him around and we do look at each other quite intensely! I know it doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of things though.im quite scared to approach him as he is extremely good looking!! He may get this sort of thing a lot,anyhow opinions please and sorry for any typos and lack of paragraphs in on my phone. X

Anyone? :(

Go for it!!! What do you have to lose?!!

Yes! Definitely talk to him- even if he is married/partnered up, he might make a great friend. What have you got to lose?

Hey ,thanks for the positive replies! ,ok well I'm not sure how to approach him as he works in admin in the section where we do our theory work and I've not had a reason to go in there yet unfortunately.although I am 30 I do look younger and he may brush me off.we are not allowed to add any staff on FB so I can't find anything out that way ,I really don't want to make an idiot of myself if he says he's not interested as there's still another few months of my course left and I see him most days so I don't want any awkwardness ifyswim ?? Thanks for reading and any thoughts welcome!! X

hi OP, this is a iknd of situatin that I tend to agonise over too, when it happens! He's really not much older than you, so he won't brush you off, that's not a worry! Or turn up with your DD at the college so he knows your age .
Can you find some course related question to ask him, or just join him for a cup of tea/lunch in the college cafe or wherever he goes, and socially chat, i.e. about his work, your study etc. This does NOT have to be a date, then it should build up from three if he is interested - try to find something in common with him and suggest an outing when you talk.
Take the bull by the horns beforeothers get in there first (as he's good looking!). Good luck - life's too short to miss these chances.