I won't bore you all with the details but basically I think this weekend has been the straw that snapped the camel's back with my husband. :(
We have been togethere can be controlling,sulking-for nearly 11 years and married almost 6. We have two ds. Our relationship is a bit the the girl with the curl... When its good its very good but when it is bad it is awful. Our relationship goes in cycles, usually based on how things are going for him. Over the past 6 months work has been hard for him but I am fed up with being his verbal punching bag. He silks and ignores for days on end, whilst denying anything is wrong. He ridiculed me. Sulks if u go out but yet encourages me to go, so I feel even worse. Recently he he has taken control of all our money. I feel as if I am constantly walking in egg shells. My eldest son is also aware of the atmosphere and tries to "avoid making daddy cross" and is aware "we need to give him time alone to relax or he gets too stressed"