This may sound completely ungrateful, but last year my partner and I moved into my in-laws to save money for a house. In December we found out we were having our first child.... We were so happy, but almost instantly my mother in law started buying things without asking me. She's practically brought everything down to the steriliser, changing mat, baby grows, clothes, pram, grooming kit... I wouldn't mind so much if she let me choose.
We're finally moving out next month and she said that shed stop buying, but I broke down today as she told me as a birthday gift she was going to pack my hospital bag, choose my nighties, and everything to go in it... I don't have the heart to tell her that's something I desperately wanted to do my self, she also said shed brought a bath for the baby. Am I right in thinking its something very personal... It's really upsetting me. My partner and I have plenty saved to buy things and I spend a lot of time looking for the right things and now I feel like I am being pushed and forced into decisions I dislike :(
My partner has had a word with her.... But it seems she just can't help herself.
HAs anyone else experienced and thing like this?
Thanks girls.x