Ok so DPs folks invited us up to theirs on sat for a family get together. I wasnt sure if I could go or not as I might have been working. Turns out I wasnt working so I could go. Friday I text him telling him I could go and what time had we to go at, he text back saying around 7. I asked then if he was bringing his kids as he had them that weekend to which he rang me back & said he was going to but wouldnt if I was going. I said no its grand still go with them & I'd sit it out as wasnt going to get babysitter for my kids if kids were going up (his brother was bringing his kids also). He said get babysitter to mind his kids & my kids and stay in my house although previously has said that he doesnt want them staying in my house as thier mother lives close by and they do want to go & see her. Anyhow he had to go back to work so phone conversation ended with we would talk about it later when he called over. He called and we didnt talk about it..... Next day i rang him & brought the night up in conversation as a lead up to him to talk about the plans, I felt I couldnt as it was his family & didnt want to not have his kids go because of me. Anyway he didnt mention anything about it, later i done the same & still he said nothing about me going or could we come up with a solution.
He rang after he collected kids when he got home & said I better phone u now as DB was on his way to his house as they were staying there that night. That kinda pissed me off as just cause he DB etc round doesnt mean he cant ring me for rest of night! Anyhow after phone call I text him pointing out I felt he didnt really want me going & kinda made it obvious as no conversation toke place after it was said previous day it would.
Ill add here I was diagnosed with a chronic disease on Wed & suffer from depression. After being diagnosed I went on a bit of a downer which he knew about as i told him i was a bit sad.
He responded to text on sat saying about the solutions and i still said no! I said no we were to follow up on that conversation. Anyhow I text saying i just needed to say it as was playing on my mind and didnt need added shit in my head after my health stuff. I didnt want me mulling it over & escalating into something bigger. Told him to enjoy his night & tell everyone I said hello. He text back another smart text.
Roll on to sun, he wont talk to me, I rang him to which he ranted that i take out all my problems on him (we had a row 2 weeks previous because i took my issues with my kids out on him but sorted that) and hes sick of it. Hung up the phone and nothing since. Ive text several times to which i received very few texts back & the ones i have got back are horrid. Telling me to fuck off & leave him alone!!! We are together 2 years & have had our up & downs like everyone but I really dont think i deserve that treatment.
This isnt the first time, every time i bring up an issue he does this. He walks out, sends angry & hurtful texts, finshes it & then we sort it. I think he doesnt want it sorted this time & to be honest i dont think i do either. Tired of not being able to talk about stuff between us without a kick off. Its sad cause we just had an amazing week & generally we get on amazing. Just this issue keeps arising.... Dont know what im asking really.......