Basically ex is the definition of a twatweasel. He last saw dd in November and I haven't heard from him at all since early jan when he said "I'm really busy at the mo". No Xmas present, card, call or text for dd, not birthday for that matter last year. She's 2.9. I haven't made any contact either since that text in January coz in my opinion he clearly has no interest and I don't want dd to be around someone who couldn't give a shit. But should I be making more of an effort? He's never since the day she was born (he left when she was 13 days old) had her for more than 8 hours, never overnight.