Ok not wanting to drip feed, currently mid ( I hope) divorce with stbxh due to him deciding life just wasn't what he wanted , oh and he just happened to have met OW on business trip (But it was just a working relationship. yeah right!!)
Jump on 6 months got own house relocating from abroad and new job doing pretty well really. H now living 150 miles away ( his choice as self employed could live anywhere but guess it avoids bumping into anyone in Tescos)
This week DD was doing an event with MIL on his weekend . His plan to come Friday collect DS and take to his for w. end . MIL asked me to also help.
Sunday he calls and says he's now staying round here and will be going to event. I asked therefore could we arrange to do half each so we could both be there and help MIL.
He refused saying 'my' weekend/family/ time with kids etc etc ( sent 36 emails ranting over 24 hrs)!!!
In the end I said fine in interests of peace n harmony I wouldn't go. In meantime he spoke to his dad who had planned for the boys to have a day out. So I get text saying 'oh you can go now' so told him I'd made other plans ( sort of ) 
23 ranty emails later saying I'm selfish as he has been accommodating and I'm letting everyone down , he blocked all my email addresses!!!!
Ok not sure what I am asking Suspect I am cutting off my own nose a little but should I have given in knowing it was cos he got a better offer?? Or was I right sticking to my guns?