I'm getting increasingly fed up and frustrated at our sex life. We've been together less than a year and it already feels like we've been married 10 years when it comes to sex. We used to have sex every night we were together, sometimes 3/4 times a night so you could say we started off with an excellent sex life. Then we started to see each other more and more so naturally, we didn't feel the need to shag like rabbits when we did sleep together anymore - fair enough. Now we maybe have sex 2/3 times a week (despite the fact that we're practically living together and spend every night sleeping together) and the sex is normally pretty half arsed. The same foreplay every time, quick shag and then sleep. No variations in position, no oral, very limited foreplay (as I said, the same thing every time), no real affection, no caressing of the boobs or anything like that, just straight "down there" and that's it.
He insists on going to bed really late, usually getting on for midnight despite the fact that he starts work at 7am so he's normally "too tired" for sex anyway. On the few occasions that I've managed to convince him to come to bed earlier, he sits there playing on his fecking ipad until he's absolutely knackered.
Last night we started to have sex and mid way through (!!!) he declares that actually he's too tired to carry on - this is despite the fact that we last had sex last Friday so it's not as if I'm at him every night. So, we stop half way through, I'm left feeling fed up and frustrated and he doesn't seem bothered, not even an ounce of embarrassment or realisation.
The worst bit about it was that was probably the last time we'll get to have sex for quite a while now as we're out until very late tonight (so he definately won't have the energy tonight!), he sleeps at his own house on a saturday night and we're going on holiday on Sunday (sharing rooms with the kids for two weeks).
AIBU to think my boyfriend should maybe WANT to have sex with me??