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obsessed with friends father

11 replies

SeraphinaFuchsia · 12/03/2013 19:45

Happily married for 15 years on DC. Recently met father of Dc's friend - we had lunch while they shopped. Been texting each other every day for 3 weeks on things to do with the children - he is married too and we mention each others other halfs.
I am now getting obsessed with him and get panicky if I don't get a text one day to the point I try and find an excuse to text. What should I do????

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Pollykitten · 12/03/2013 19:48

You know what to do - pack it in! Simple.

RatPants · 12/03/2013 19:48

Cool it. Mention your husband more. Remove yourself from the texting situation and get over him - no good will come of this!

deste · 12/03/2013 19:49

I despair.

AnyFucker · 12/03/2013 19:50

Back right off, of course.

What else is there to do ?

LaurieFairyCake · 12/03/2013 19:52

Fuck him

And ruin your life

or get a grip

CognitiveOverload · 12/03/2013 19:53

Stop now or deal with the hideous consequences that will affect everyone you care for.

OnlyWantsOne · 12/03/2013 19:59

Have a long hard think about what you are playing at and work out what the fall out would be if you continue down this path. It will not be pretty. Grass is not greener.

Lucyellensmum95 · 12/03/2013 20:01

Im not sure what you are asking this for - you know you are doing wrong, you know you need to grow the fuck up - sorted

dondon33 · 12/03/2013 20:19

Stop it! stop it! STOP IT!!

You're already in dangerous territory, now back the fuck off before you completely cross the line - I'm not saying only you are responsible because he's obviously up for some extra marital desperate housewife action but you both have OH's and DC that will be torn apart by BOTH of your actions - send one last text if you must telling him to delete your number and that it stops now.

P.s - you may want to have a think about your relationship with your poor H, if you feel - obsessed with him and get panicky if I don't get a text one day
towards another guy then there's obviously something very amiss there.

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SeraphinaFuchsia · 12/03/2013 20:23

You are all right - I knew it really - hits harder reading it from someone else - thanks everyone i really mean it

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CognitiveOverload · 12/03/2013 21:11

Good luck with all. I personally would deal with mind over matter, stop contact, ignore any future advances he may make and distract yourseld with friends and family. Is everything ok between you and your dh?

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