is there any advice on how not to be somebody that toxic people target with their drama - baits, and their distorted interpretations of what you 've done and why. I hardly know this person. I got away from a narc husband. That was tough. But I did it. Disengaged. I would never have a romantic relationship with a toxic or abusive person. I've had one relationship since with a decent, kind, supportive man. However, I wonder what it is about me that a toxic person finds 'attractive'. Is it just because I see this person for what he really is? all the people who thinks he's a decent man are safe from his toxicity?
If the book helps with this I will (finally!) buy it.