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wish me luck - tomorrows the day!

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catkin14 · 10/03/2013 22:53

I am almost beside myself with worry but tomorrow I tell my manipulative, critical, negative & miserable H that I want out of our marriage.

And with a bit of luck I move out of our house with DS on friday into a house with no head games or being caught in headlights sessions!
Today I actually felt the freedom of this while i was thinking about it all.

But just got to get tomorrow over with. Its been a long time coming!!

Please send me positive thoughts? Thank you : )

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jkklpu · 10/03/2013 23:01

Best of luck with it: well done for getting this far. You must be very strong, whatever your H might have tried to lead you to believe.

Lepreporn · 10/03/2013 23:08

Good luck. Hope it all goes well for you.
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way

Tortoise · 10/03/2013 23:10

Good luck. Hope it all goes well. And well done for taking this step x

goodenuffmum · 10/03/2013 23:10

Good luck x
I have just completed the first week post split and survived.

Keep posting here for support....thats what Im doing x

catkin14 · 10/03/2013 23:11

Thank you!
My best hope is that he can try to be an adult about it. But im not holding my breath! : (

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queenofthepirates · 10/03/2013 23:11

Big day! Sending you huge positive vibes and do come back and tell us how it goes xxx

catkin14 · 10/03/2013 23:12

goodenuffmum - how did your H react? did you do the ending? if you dont mind me asking?

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Lora1982 · 11/03/2013 02:23

Good luck. Do you think hes half expecting it? I think his reaction depends on the way things are. When i split with my dp of ten years he was horrific refused to leave, waking me and shouting at 3am and general bastardry :-\ he wasnt expecting the split though and was in denial.

snowshapes · 11/03/2013 07:25

Good luck. I remember your earlier post. I am 7 weeks post-separation. Mine just did not accept I was serious so it was and is difficult, but I think better on a day to day basis.

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