Hi all,
I posted this thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/a1662463-Am-I-being-unreasonable a few weeks ago. After some counselling, I spoke with H and he is moving out today (not sure if this is the best or worst mothers day ever). I have asked him to give me a few months to get my head around some of the things that have happened over the past 10 years, most of which I didn't mention in my first post but with counselling I have realised that it was out of order.
H seems very sorry about it all (controlling behaviour, emotional affair etc etc) but I just don't want to hear it as I feel it is too little too late.
I have a plan to rearrange the house exactly how I would like and to do lots of reading that I haven't been able to do while he has been around. Obviously I will also sort out finance stuff and hopefully my sisters will visit me soon.
Onwards and upwards eek.