It will get easier, Angel. I moved away after I split with my ex, lived in a rented house for six months and then bought my own place and live there with my DCs. i've been there a year now and it's very much still a work in progress, lots of decorating and stuff to do.
It can be hard, and I've found it difficult to make new friends as I am always at work (in a different town) or in with the children in the evenings unless I pay for a babysitter. But I've renewed contact with a lot of old friends and although it's texting, phoning and messaging, rather than actually seeing them, it does help me a lot to have someone to chat to and rant to on occasion. Friends are very important.
Other than that, keeping busy is good so long as you don't overdo it and get stressed. It's easy sometimes to forget how much you have been through and it can all build up sometimes (especially in the middle of the night).
I work full-time and have two children in primary school. The main thing is to get your childcare arrangements sorted out, don't worry about housework-type stuff you don't get done in the week, and once you've been in your job a while see if you can do flexible hours eg early start, early finish or something if that would make your day easier.
Don't be afraid of the future. Things will sort out one way or another, they always do. My life isn't at all how I'd planned for it to be, but most of the time it's good, although hard. There are some low days and some bloody brilliant ones! I'm finding out again who I am and how to have fun and be happy, and my life is a hundred times better than it was with my ex.