I am going out of my mind, since DD was born in July DH and I have spent most of our time when not looking after her, arguing. We try not to do it infront of her and it usually happens in the evening once she is asleep. It can be about depressingly repetitive topics like money, inlaws, culture differences (i live abroad in his country). We've been together for 5 years now, married for a year and a half. He is a kind and good person, an amazing father and I know he means no badness at all. BUT at least 3 times a week we argue, about stupid things, big things, everything. Each time we talk and talk and try to make things better, we even went to some counselling before christmas which helped in short term but not really fundamentally.
Everytime it happens I think about leaving him, although logistics v difficult in foreign country with v little money or family to rely on. And I dont want to take my DD away from her father who she adores. But what can i do, I feel at the end of my tether, all i do is care for DD all day long then fight with DH all night, I'm absolutely exhausted and drained....