Hoping for some thoughts on whether you think my DP's behaviour is abusive or whether it seems normal.
Been with DP for around 2 years now. He is generally lovely to me, pays for everything we do, gives me lots of attention and makes me feel loved and attractive and is supportive over pretty much everything.
However, of late, I have started seeing a few signs that I think may be a sign of bad things to come. Occasionally when we are together he will 'accidentally' do something that ends up hurting me, like elbow me in the stomach, or barge me into a wall - that sort of thing. Most recently when we were asleep, he was shnoring so loud it stopped me sleeping. i tried to push him onto his side but he stirred in his sleep and nudged me quite hard. He is always very apologetic afterwards and says he is clumsy, but I am starting to worry a little as to whether he is just testing my boundaries for more obvious and serious physical abuse to come in the future.
I appreciate he apologises, but after reading a lot up about domestic violence and abusive relationships, I know they always do act contrite and that this is part of their MO.
Any thoughts? Am I being over sensitive?