I have 2 children, 5 & 11 months. My marriage is pretty rubbish right now and I'm just not sure how to revive it. I suffer with anxiety and am on antidepressants which help but I find I have a short fuse and can snap at dh so easily. We are both always tired but whereas I still stay up quite late on mn and the like, he likes to go to bed at 9.00pm. I find this so boring as we never ever have any fun as a couple. All he seems to want to do is eat dinner, sit on sofa with a beer and some nuts and then go to bed, even at the weekend! I am so bored of it, I try and get him to stay and talk but he won't.
I know it's hard having children but I sit and think, is this it?! My relationship with him has changed so much and we haven't had sex since dd was born as I just don't have any desire.
I have suggested we take it in turns to do date nights but this hasnt happened. Nothing happens! Is this common after children and what should I do? I feel lonely and unhappy right now as he snores next to me. Thanks