Loggerheads - two weeks of not speaking - WWYD?

[grants1000]

After a huge row about his mothers insane behavior after a visit and after he talked to his mother who said "I take things the wrong way", DH has said to me only that his mother should not have said what she said of behaved the way she did and to quote "I suppose" with a shrug of the shoulders.

It is the most hurt and upset I have ever felt in our 22 years of being together and he just can't see that and has chosen not to respond or address it. I thought my anger and hurt would fizzle out but it's getting worse. I need some sort of decent response, for my feelings to be heard and understood. Why is that so hard? I know I have more chance of being struck by lightening.

I am not telling him what to do with his mother, he can do what he likes, but I don't want to see her again.

I don't know what to do.

Has he not been speaking to you for 2 weeks or are you both ignoring each other? Either way you need to talk to him and tell him how upset you are.
Maybe you should have talked direct to his mother rather than making him the go between. Of course he should have stood up for you but it sounds like he is uncomfortable being stuck in the middle.