Breaking free?!

[mum379]

I've finally had enough and am leaving my husband after 11 years together & 3 darling children. I'm just scared :( I know in my head and my heart that we need to break the cycle we're in but I hope 6 months down the line he'll beg me for another chance :(.
I think ultimately I'm scared that our kids will blame me when they are older for breaking the family up? Anyone been there, done that and happy with the T-shirt?

Why are you leaving? What cycle do you mean? I'm really sorry about your situation.
Why do you want him back in 6 months time?
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Holding your hand

He's emotionally abusive to me, he hides money and tells me we can't afford to do anything and he doesn't want to socialise with our friends. We've been arguing a lot for the past six months and tried relate but the overall message that came from that was that he doesn't get any attention from me and that I'm rushing off to see my sisters instead of spending time with him! I work weekends when he's off I see my sisters through the week when he's at work. The cycle I want to break is of me threatening to leave then he talks me round and a few days later we're arguing again :(