I suck at foreplay

[TheElephantIsADaintyBird]

Probably tmi but when DP pokes me it's so irritating, it pushes air up and just doesn't hit the spot properly. I'm so conscious of having air up there, it really riles me! I also don't enjoy when he plays with my clitorous but I think it's just more his technique that's lacking. I'm no good at wanking, used to be good at blow jobs but now that I've lost confidence in all of the above I'm starting to feel really self conscious during the BJ.

Poor DP, he loves foreplay and I really feel I'm letting him down by just wanting to jump to the sex bit. I know I'm missing out as well, the sex is a bit awkward without foreplay.

He's a good guy and is very patient and complimentary so I've no idea why I've suddenly got this big aversion to it, I just feel like I'm doing it all wrong.

Does anyone have any advice? I could really do with it

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him to help you out. tell him you'll do the same.
You can have the most fun learning each others bodies again and hopefully the rest will fall into place. As for the air, not sure on that other than to make the most of the fanny-farts thereafter?!?
Hope things get better

Why don't you buy a couple of books, just to try and get your mojo back and see how your/his technique is lacking - perhaps you could read them together and try out the positions?
Good luck OP. IMO foreplay is better than the sex bit! xx