My hands are shaking. I don't know what to do. I have just discovered, through guessing at his password and looking at his emails that my husband has contacted someone through a sex website and is asking her for a regular relationship. He is working abroad at the moment and mentioned this in his email. He sent it 5 days ago. 4 or so years ago I suspected he was having affairs but never had the courage to confront him. I thought it was all ok now and we have since gone on to have 2 more children - the latest is just 6 months old. But it's not and he wants sex with someone else again and what do I do? If I confront him then I have to be prepared for the marriage to be over but I can't ignore it. I gave up work 2 years ago to move closer to his new job but he is away a lot really. Please, any advice welcome.