just had horrible words with dh. he is always f*cking up and just says 'sorry' not gestures just sorry. he thinks all he has to do is say sorry and i have to forgive him. we are sleeping in seperate bedrooms now and as few mins ago he basically asked me if we could have sex. i said no way. i said i need to go to bed and know that i can relax (long story) - anyway he said i am making a big mistake!! we know this couple that seperated lately because from what i know the h was drinking way to much and also having an affair - so dh says to me " you dont realise what the h had to put up with" but wouldnt say anymore! talk about all boys together. he obviously thinks your man was driven to have an affair because the wife wouldnt sleep with him (why would she when he was in the pub every night)
warped way of thinking imo -