Divorced from incredibly abusive ex. Myself and DC doing really well.
I know my DC are a million % better off without him. Due to his own poor behaviour toward them, they have all ceased contact with him of their own accord.
I have a restraining order which prevents him from contacting or approaching me, but, he hangs around my area as he claims he's working on an allotment. I have reported, nothing can be done unless he breaches restraining order.
Part of our story is that he went off with OW and has subsequently has a child with her. They live in a different area so as hard as that was for my DC, at least it's not in their faces.
Today my DD (who has learning disability and low mental age) was walking home from school, saw her 'dad' walking up the street close to our house with his daughter. She tried to say hello to him, and he totally blanked her and preceded to loudly call his daughter 'princess' etc. My DD is devastated. I'm so angry right now.
It's bad enough that he chooses to come to the area we live when there's no good reason. We came here to get away. Now he's parading his child around our area and acting like that too. I feel like he's pushed it too far. There's just no need.
Thank you for reading. I'm just so angry I needed to get it out but don't want to talk to RL friends/family about h again as I'm over that now.